An aside….in all the relationship talk last night, with couples, broken hearts, happy soulmates, people from all over the world really I couldn’t help but to think of all the amazing advice I have received in my own life….there was a moment when we were having a talk with someone, a girl who was at a crossroads with her fiance…she didn’t “feel it”..and yet she couldn’t understand why…I mean, he was “perfect”, all the things one would want, but there was that “thing” missing…the part, the most important where you make each other better, where you are not alone but feel inspired to be alive…it is an intangible of a relationship, that “thing” that seems to bound us and bind us and make you KNOW that this is the person for you….it comes from a place of not just love, but more important, NOT fear….

Many things were said, most of which were just nods and listens because this sort of experience, CHOICES, they are only to be made by the individual…no one can know the intricacies between two people…

I said, at the end…well, I wanted to, but someone came outside and the moment passed, but something my Mom once said to me that really has always stuck…

“Better to be alone, than to be alone in a relationship.”

Jake